Should She Dump Him BEFORE or AFTER the Surprise Party?
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2026年04月10日
"do i break up with my boyfriend before or after the surprise 30th birthday party i've been planning for 3 months? (24F, 29M)"
She has been planning his "big 30" for three months, but the more she plans his surprise party, the more she realizes she want a surprise exit.
Is it "cruel" to dump someone right before a milestone birthday? Or is it more cruel to let them walk into a room full of people they love while you're secretly planning your life without them?
#RedditStories #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupAdvice #BurbNBougie #TheFeral Feminist #EmotionalLabor #WeaponizedIncompetence #Storytime #30thBirthday #DatingRedFlags
She has been planning his "big 30" for three months, but the more she plans his surprise party, the more she realizes she want a surprise exit.
Is it "cruel" to dump someone right before a milestone birthday? Or is it more cruel to let them walk into a room full of people they love while you're secretly planning your life without them?
#RedditStories #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupAdvice #BurbNBougie #TheFeral Feminist #EmotionalLabor #WeaponizedIncompetence #Storytime #30thBirthday #DatingRedFlags
